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These are improvisations: neither a manifesto nor a treatise because life is too complicated for either. Yet, I'm improvising as an Arab--Palestinian-- woman with a progressive point of view always under construction. I use these improvisations to think out loud, so never take any post as my last word on a subject but think of it as the beginning of a conversation.

Sunday, July 24, 2011

On Real and Imaginary Oppressors of Women

In an article in The Electronic Intifada entitled "Who is the Real Oppressor of Gaza Women's Rights," Yasmeen al Khoudary laments that when it comes to oppression of Palestinian women,  the western media tends to focus on "trivial" issues while ignoring the "real" ones such as the occupation.

She may have a point, but the way she goes about it undermines her argument and raises major red flags for me. Partly because I've heard it all before. It's the broken record about priorities (for nationalists) and major vs. minor contradictions (for Marxists) etc. etc. But also because she basis her argument on the false assumption that Palestinian women in Gaza (or anywhere for that matter) have one oppressor. She calls that the "real" oppressor. Other sources of oppression are dismissed, minimized, trivialized, and ridiculed. Only the occupation oppresses Gazan women. Any other grievance is to be suspected and dismissed.

So, according to the article, when a young Gazan woman complains in front of a foreign diplomat about having to wear the hijab, the writer has to take her aside and chastise her for bringing up irrelevant issues. She reminds her that Hamas does "not ban women from not wearing it" (interesting way of putting it) and that if the girl comes from a conservative family or neighborhood that makes her veil, then it's a personal issue and not the fault of the government. Then she concludes: "There's a fine line between our mildly conservative traditions and the rules that Hamas imposes on our society, and the two need not be mixed for the sake of our image." In other words, Hamas's social policies over the past two decades are to be erased. The problem is that our society is "mildly conservative" (come on! who can't live with that!!) and to mix the two by blaming this conservatism on Hamas is to hurt our image!!!!

Ah, so it's all about image!!! The last thing we need is for those foreigners to think badly of us!

I'm sure that "quiet" young woman will be quieter from now on, having been told in effect that she is ignorant and that she failed the Palestinian people by bringing up such irrelevant topics. The chastiser, not surprisingly, fails to see that in shutting up her colleague (and writing an article about her folly) she is oppressing her as well. It's not the oppression of the occupation, but it is still "real."

It is possible to critique the western media and its biases without dismissing the other issues that do oppress women (and some men). Oppression is like disasters: it comes in multiple forms. It is possible to fight against the occupation AND to fight against other forms of oppression (social, patriarchal, national).  We need to always remind the western media and OURSELVES before them that the fight against the occupation is a fight for self determination and freedom: of expression, of movement, of association, and of choice, collectively and individually.

The fact that some use women's rights or gay rights to whitewash and pinkwash the Israeli occupation does not mean we should stop fighting for these rights.

Otherwise, it's a half-assed liberation not worth dying for!


Saturday, July 23, 2011

Friday, July 22, 2011

Anonymous


Attacks on Algerian Women

Attacks on Algerian women go unpunished. The targets are women who live alone. Attackers use the accusation of prostitution as a license  to kill. The government looks the other way.

For more details and to sign a petition, see here

The Worst Clip of the Week




Oh, what could be more entertaining than a "cat fight" (with apologies to our feline friends) between two women over a man? A mud-wrestling match doesn't even come close. This is so embarrassing, so idiotic, so uncool, so last century, and so degrading to women as to leave me at a loss for words. And the double whammy (beyond the Abdu/Khashab awful performance) is that the director is a woman: Batoul Arafah. Please retire, all three of you.

BTW, the text ads at the bottom of the screen advertise products for premature ejaculation and weak erections--just in case you were wondering who the target audience for the clip is.


Thursday, July 21, 2011

The Mountain




شوف الجبل واقف ولا هزته ريح،
شوف القمر عالي ولا يمكن يطيح.
وانا الجبل في عزتي وفي وقوفي،
والبدر من طولي توسد كتوفي.
ون كنت تبغي يا وفا العمر توضيح
ما اطيح من هزة ، ولا تهزني ريح
ما للزمن يا صاح غالي و صاحب
له قلب متقلب ، وله وجه شاحب.
وأنا لاوني من الزمن صرت ضايق،
بس اشكره جداً كشفلي حقايق
علمني كيف اتحدى, لو مت ما اطيح
ما اطيح من هزة ولا تهزني ريح